Taking Out The Trash

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I made the drive home from college every weekend during my freshman year to spend time with her. If I didn’t go home, it was because she came to school to see me. As the year went on, I began to hear rumors here and there about things happening back at home and during my winter semester, she broke up with me. I didn’t know what to do with myself. I had given her everything I could and treated her like a queen.

It didn’t really stop there though. For the next several months, it was almost as if we were still dating. I still drove home from college and spent the majority of my time with her. I was simply getting toyed with, because she could….and I let her. I went through a bit of a “psycho” spell during this time and you could have even called me a “stalker” in reality. I was out of control. That summer was the first time I had ever drank in my life and she was the reason.

By the time summer rolled around, we were no longer talking and she was dating a kid I graduated with…the worst possible choice. Maybe it was to spite me. A week or two before the school year started I was out rollerblading and she stopped me on the side of the road. She said she really missed me in her life and that we needed to hang out once school started since she would be attending the same school. Of course I agreed.

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14 thoughts on “Taking Out The Trash”

  1. Hey bud.. I feel your pain.. went through almost the same scenario after HS with my “High school” sweatheart… except I went down a different path – I moved away from her to forget about her.. then ended up getting married and having 3 kids! All by the age of 25!

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  3. Never knew that all that happened to you buddy!…I feel bad now for always asking you why you didn’t have a woman and always seeming to make fun of you somehow dealing with the ladies. I guess the only advice I can say is to not let one relationship ruin what could happen for you inthe future. You never know what fate has in store. Keep your head up hon…but make sure when you try to be with someone again that they deserve to be with a nice person like you!…see you next time you come home!—Bird aka Your lil’ bro’s gf….

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  4. I feel for ya bro, but I mean come on man, it’s been long enough, forget the bitch and get on with your damned life. Stop sittin’ around and lettin’ a God damn woman ruin your fun, get out there and get yourself some, fag boy.

    You know I’m here for ya bro……Your Baby Brother

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  5. I never noticed you going through a pyscho stage….hahaha Just messin with ya! It is good that you are going to forget about her…she isnt worth it bud! We will have to get you hooked up with someone and then she will become a distant memory!

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  6. Thanks everybody!! It’s been quite awhile now since I’ve been over the whole thing, but I just wanted to get that out there. It was kinda weird actually that I came across all that stuff yesterday.

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  7. Dang….now that’s what I’m talking about….gettin’ to the good stuff. 😉 Wow…didn’t know it was that messed up…forget about her….she’s old news….good post.

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  8. :mrgreen: I’m so glad you listened to me back then and didn’t take time off from college. I guess I really knew this was why you weren’t dating and I’m glad you wrote about it. Now it’s time to move on. You treated her like a queen, but she was used to getting treated that way by her mother. She’s a beautiful girl, but her looks are what made her the way she is and why everybody wanted her. In the end, that’s what did her in. I’m so glad you’re finally gonna put it behind you and move on. It’s the best move you’ve ever made. I love you and hope you find someone that’s worthy of your love someday. In the meantime, have fun and don’t stop looking for that special someone. She’ll come along when you least expect it. And I promise not to ask anymore if you have a woman in your like. (But I’ll always be hoping and waiting for you to let me know when there is – haha). Love Ya Lots, Mom xoxoxo

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  10. Women are hard to get over but if it’s not meant to be it’s not meant to be. You will know when it is and until then there are alots of gals out there who are just waiting to be asked out. I’m glad you closed the chapter on that book finally but I understand it wasn’t easy. Now start reading a smaller book that you control when you flip the page. You know I’m alway’s there the old man.

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  12. Well, I wasn’t going to comment on this but I will anyway. No, I’m not gonna tell you that I told you so…even though I think I did. No one could be more happy than me that you are finally putting this behind you. Maybe know I can set you up!! Love is a great thing, I know you’ll find it when you’re ready. I love you!

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